Asian men vs European men

So... I'm a Chinese girl that's grown up in Europe, Scandinavia to be exact. I've always been around Scandinavian people, never had a single Asian friend when I grow up - so basically I know NOTHING about Asian youth.

But there's a thing I'm really curious about, are Asian men really different from European men, and if so, what are the differences?

I can't pinpoint the reason, but somehow I'm just not compatible with the men in the country I grew up in, because of the differences... Like, if I would cook a nice dinner for us to share, they will see it as if I'm putting limits on them. If I made the dinner, and asked the guy to do the dished, he'll drag it as far out as possible. If I wanted to take regular walks, I'm taking up their time.

Sometimes I'd think if I was asking too much, but they keep telling me they love me, yet they can't show it in simple ways like that? I don't really care about diamonds and fancy cars (well, I do, but that's in my dreams xD) but I care if you whether you really love me or not.

Hahha, sorry for rambling.. Anyway, 10 cents for your thoughts?